A Bird in Hand

A small bird slammed hard into my big kitchen window yesterday, landing on its back in the flowerpot below, wings splayed, dazed. I went to it and scooped it gently into my hands and sat on the porch steps. Its eyes were open but the left one was squinting. Must’ve hit on that side. Cradling it in my cupped hand I let it rest, feeling the ball of so much heat radiating from its little body into my palm. I felt a kindred. It closed its eyes and began to doze off.

Then I thought of concussions and that sleep can be fatal, so I began to gently move the bird to roust it, opening its eyes again. We sat on the porch for twenty minutes or so then I thought this may take a while, and decided to place the bird in a basket on my patio table. It would be safe, and would have to take the chance  that though it may sleep, it will be all right.

I watched it through the window as I worked inside. It stayed on the cushion I had put in the basket for another hour. I’d go out to check and it would open its eyes, but not move. Another hour passed and I looked, it had moved to perch on the edge of the cushion, but I noticed it was a little wobbly. Not wanting to disturb it I watched closer through a pair of compact binoculars from the kitchen window. Although it was standing, it was still dozing off, dipping its head down.

Eventually I went out and quietly sat in the chair beside the patio table and observed the little bird, still perched, for several minutes. Its eyes were open now but made no attempt to move. I began to think maybe this little bird will never fully recover, that there may be brain damage. Forget how to fly, how to find food.

I went back in to get my sketch book, thought it’s not often one has a live bird this close and still, and sat by the bird again. It was looking more alert now. I began to draw, just getting its initial shape down before it suddenly flickered away off and up into the nearby bushes.

Leaving me fascinated by that little creatures resiliency after a hard blow. A human would not have fared so well I think.  Leaving me wishing the bird well.

I smiled. I should have brought my sketchbook out sooner.


Moments with Monet

Claude Monet in his Giverny Garden. Photo at the Vancouver Art gallery 2017

I had made the trip to Vancouver last week to the Vancouver Art Gallery to be in the company of one of the great Impressionists, correction THE one who set that movement in motion Claude Monet, and not wanting to miss this rare opportunity before his show closed in October. I was alone, and could take all the luscious time I desired.

I would slowly go to each work, get in right up close to exam brush strokes, standing far back to allow the work to do what it was supposed to do. That is, as it is Impressionist, it gives the viewer impressions of  the subject matter. That when viewed from a distance becomes clear and whole, the human eye filling in the image so to speak, the atmosphere, movement and play of light give the work structure and form and rich depth.

Of course this style is most expressed later on in his career, becoming nearly abstract towards the end- which kind of heralded in Modern Expressionist. I also find it curious too that Monet suffered from cataracts in mid-life and required eye surgery. Just sayin’.

His early work is more realist, and traditional, and he was an astonishingly prolific painter, painting several series of the same subject in different light or seasons.

So I approached the exhibition with anticipation and openness, I mean The Water Lilies! Monet! I am going to see them live! I was excited to experience them up close.

I arrive in the room of the Nymphéas and there they are!  Yes. I stand at the entrance way as I take them in before focusing on each one separately and what slowly seeps to the forefront of my thoughts is “Hmmph.” I stand several minutes. I then approach one painting up close. I fall back across the room and look again. I can’t believe that I feel underwhelmed. Is it me? Yeah, of course. It’s got to be, because this is a master’s work. And although I studied fine art and consider myself an artist, I wasn’t getting it. Which is the most benighted thing to say about any artists’ work.

I wasn’t impressed.

But I stayed with them,wanting to see what I thought I was going to see. And to be clear, I was still humbled and in awe of seeing these masterpieces, I am certainly not arrogant enough to poo-poo these incredible works. But I only saw muddy and flat, and without atmosphere. Ok, no matter, they are Monet’s and I love that I was in the same room with them regardless of my inept sensitivity. I turn and study his Japanese Bridge, and the Rose Arbors, and the Weeping Willow all painted from his beautiful huge Giverny garden. I stand back and raise my iPhone to a painting of his Rose Arbor because of course I have to take photographs.- It’s Monet!

Claude Monet, Vancouver Art Gallery 2017. Rose Arbor From his garden in Giverny
Claude Monet, Vancouver Art Gallery, 2017 Rose Arbor


Claude Monet, Vancouver Art Gallery, 2017 Weeping Willow

And as I bring the iPhone ( camera) up to my eyes a surprising thing happened. As I’m looking at the image of the painting  in my iPhone that image suddenly comes alive- I mean with that rich depth-ness and color. My eye goes back and forth between painting on the wall and the painting image in my iPhone and they are completely different. From flat and muddy to rich depth and color. I am amazed and confused (ok, true that is my usual state anyway) and after taking the photo I proceed through all the paintings looking at them through my iPhone seeing them all transformed. It was weird.

I think to myself  Oh, this is how they are supposed to look. I am pulled in to the paintings like I was expecting. I did notice the lighting in my iPhone was different too as soon as I lifted it in front of the paintings opposed to the gallery lighting. I did nothing to change anything as far as settings or flash go, but it was definitely different. So there’s me walking around with my bloody iPhone in front of my face like a tech addict tourist looking at a master’s work.

Yet later when I viewed the photographs on my phone and downloaded them onto my computer they reverted back to what I saw in person. Ah well.

In his later life as his work became more expressionist there is one painting, again of his pond in his Giverny home garden. It was so very modern and vivacious, I loved it.

Claude Monet, Vancouver Art Gallery 2017

When researching his work online later at home I came across what I thought was a similar painting to the one above- too similar in fact but they didn’t quite match up. Same style, even the colors, but couldn’t place it. Until I turned the painting upside down. The photograph of the one I took in the gallery that is. As you will notice the gallery painting displays the little gold “tag” if you will on the lower edge of the frame, so of course this is the correct hanging. Yet every image I found online, from what I could assume were legit sites (Online/Legit Info oxymoron alert) showed the work turned the other way. As I show in the image below.

Claude Monet, inverted as seen on all online sites

So I called the Gallery. They said I wasn’t the first person to point this out, but that the curator has said the paintings came direct from the Musée Marmottan Monet in Paris which happens to have the largest collection of Monet in the world. Alrighty then.


I have plans to return one more time to the gallery with Bob before the exhibition ends, to see it with new eyes, and fresh perspective. Have a closer look at that expressionist lily pond. Until then ~

Claude Monet, Vancouver Art Gallery, 2017 .The Rose Bush 1925

Claude Monet, Vancouver Art Gallery 2017. Detail of The Rose Bush 1925


Big City

Last week when I woke and pulled back the drapes in the living room a pair of panted legs with heavy dark boots hung before me. A bridge of metal tubing crisscrossed the window.

Oh yeah, I’m not at my house. I’m in Vancouver, staying at my friends downtown condo while she’s staying in my house on Vancouver Island, we agreed on a four-day swap.

This arrangement served us both perfectly, I was wanting some time in the city before the summer ended for a few reasons. First Claude Monet was showing at the Vancouver Art Gallery, second I have never been to UBC’c Museum of Anthropology, and third I just wanted to soak up some big city buzz.

My friend in turn got a reprieve from her, five months and counting, green sheathed, scaffolded, plywood strewn, beeping work trucks, strange mens legs dangling outside the front window, exterior condo refit in exchange for peace and quiet, a lot of trees, and the ocean.

I love the energy and bustle of cities. The visuals, even the noise. I wanted grit, chaos, to see people moving in all directions, to see weird people, smells, colour, texture and even the anonymity of walking down a busy crowded street and no one knowing who I am. There is for me a kind of perverse liberation to be alone in a crowd. To be unnoticed.

I can fill up, and then return to my tranquil island home where everybody has known me for thirty years. Best of both worlds.

I can certainly do day trips to Vancouver, the Departure Ferry is only a short city transit bus ride away from me. Walking onto the ferry for $16, get off at Horseshoe Bay in Vancouver and jump right onto their express city transit bus that, forty and so minutes later, deposits me right downtown on W. Georgia. But all in there and back alone eats up a solid four hours of my day in traveling.

So to have several days to meander that beautiful city and without expensive hotel costs? Perfect. Plus I had enough time to get an evening in with my stepson and his wife.

Also Bob is away for work. I could also add that this friend I have swapped with is in fact Bobs ex. Yes, she is the mother of my step son whom I’ve had the pleasure raising from the age of ten. When Bob was telling his co workers that his wife and his ex have swapped houses there was some laughter, some ‘Whaaaa?’ and some head shaking of disbelief.  Bob was pleased with their reaction. We just all get along, long story short.

The four days went exactly as I had planned and if you care to check back my following posts will cover my  time with Monet, the Museum of Anthropology (MOA), city walks, and will answer the pressing query -what the frick is a Catfe  ~

Becoming Grandparent

Seeing my daughter’s belly grow awakens memories of her and I when we were both young. When I was 22 and she was newborn, when we were beginning the early years of our development. New mother, new baby. Sharp learning curve. If only I knew then what I know now. Then, I didn’t fully grasp the trajectory of my role as mother, I only knew I was a young single woman with a child. We were a pair, her and I, with a close bond.

But I was ill prepared for what I was embarking on. I worked to keep us off welfare. And it’s true in hind site only do I recognize I struggled in keeping us housed, clothed and fed without really identifying with the fact I was struggling, because I suppose I was ignorant, which perhaps I misinterpreted as being happy. A false sense of bliss? No, I believe I was happy. And things seemed to work out in a slip shod way. God looks after children and fools.

It was a bumpy ride. No doubt about that.

I do wish I had slowed down and savored that era a bit more deeply.  A regret that chafes. To have fully understood and embraced my role as mother. I do wish I had had the steely determination to have focused on a career too. To be fair I did attempt, but was met with financial limitations. I just wish I had been a stronger woman, stronger mother.

But that was then and we survived. More than survived, we have thrived.

This is now. I’m going to be a grandmother in a couple of months. I’m getting used to those words, those good words, although I still feel like a twenty-something in my head. I am taking what I didn’t know then but knowing full well now to appreciate what the significance this new role, this new era of my life, will hold. I see my daughter in a different place than where I was at 22.

Maybe because she’s 36. She has a mid-wife, and a Doula, a home with a partner. More prepared than I ever was. Like a grown up. She’s a strong woman, she’ll be an excellent mother.

And I wonder is this what becoming a grandparent gifts us with? I have to say it’s not without some bittersweetness. What I would give to do over again. These saturated feelings of anticipation, excitement, joy, awareness, of bringing a human into the world. But now it’s her turn, my daughter. And I vicariously get that second chance.

I think this is what becoming a grandparent gifts us with.




Salad Days

I tend to garden by trial and error. I don’t get too fussy but I like to grow things and especially love having a vegetable garden. It continues to impress me that I can put this small unassuming seed into the dirt and in return will bestow pounds of food for me to eat. Incredible. Notably plants like the cucumber, chard and beans, I mean you pick and pick and it keeps forthcoming! What kind of food fountain magic is this? Makes me question this ongoing issue of global food shortages.

And to eat a home-grown tomato is still a high point of summer bliss. Ok one point. Summer has many.

Some things I plant don’t always pan out, like artichoke. I LOVE artichokes, and they’re expensive to buy so I have planted one each year but they never make it, like the one I planted this year, but I’ll try again next spring. I included Brussel Sprouts for the first time this year too, can’t wait to see how they turn out.

I have a variety of squashes, things that will keep during winter and am especially happy to finally see  butternuts growing, another vegetable tried several times but without success. If you want the most delicious pumpkin pie, don’t use pumpkin. Use butternut. It’s transforming. Next year I want to expand on winter crops, see how long we can eat off these humble patches of dirt.

The other night we had forgotten to close our front gate and a deer wandered through and dined heavily on the beans, but I didn’t mind- this time- I had already harvested several pounds, there was enough to share.

And deer are fickle. They never ate the potato plant. Ever. Until last year, again coming through a forgotten open gate, and literally cleared out all the potato plants to sticks. Didn’t touch a bean. I have planted potatoes for twenty-six years, and not once ! My three rows of potatoes this time suffered only a very light graze on a couple of plants.

In my early days of gardening here we had no fence and would lose much of the garden each year before it could produce any food. I even had Hostas planted for years that I never witnessed flowering because they were continually eaten down to mere stalks, ditto for any roses, and tulips I just stopped planting them.

I have used straw to mulch these last two years and that’s helped to keep things moist enough, but I need to walk my beach and collect seaweed to add to the soil , a resource that’s readily accessible and super beneficial.  I’ve also been reading up on No Tilling and Layer gardening to try next year. It’s a process, gardening, see what works and it’s forgiving. Good thing for my bumbling attempts.


Hazy Days

When I look out my window I swear I’ve time travelled back to my youth in Southern California. The time of the hot Santa Anna winds and the orange tinged choked sky from the burning Laguna canyon that would hang over us for days. The time of fuming freeways yellowing the horizon. News channel says our Vancouver air quality this last week is worse than Beijing. My eyes are burning.

When the sun rises it rises as a red orb. When high noon a pale yellow smudge. When it sets it’s a red orb again. The sunshine coast across the Salish sea has disappeared, along with the other gulf islands out there. Even the trees down the road seem as though they stand behind a gauzy curtain.

The Province has been and still is on fire. Again. Last year it was the same scenario, except Vancouver Island was also among the stricken. This year we’ve been spared- so far. There have been a couple of tiny fires along the highways grassy  meridians that were extinguished before they got out of hand, leaving large black swaths in their wake, and you know full well that was caused by an idiots tossed cigarette.

My heart goes out to the thousands evacuated knowing they will be losing their possessions to the flames. And I can imagine the jubilant relief of those that were allowed back to their intact homes when danger passed. Like the guy from Williams Lake who was so happy to return home from an evacuation that he got drunk and shot off fireworks.


Summer Time and the living is Busy- and Fun

The aftermath crash of an empty, quiet house since our July company departed resonates with a small shush of a vacuum. We reclaim our space like a puddle of water spreading back into cracks and crevices. A tiny empty nest sensation pervades but more the satisfaction of time well spent with these family members from Ontario over the twenty days. Ten days with Dan then a three day turn over before Mel and Crystal arrived for ten days. We packed on the kilometers showing them our beautiful west coast island home.

We covered as much as we could cram in to make their trip memorable from Long Beach on the Pacific Rim, walking across the Kinsol Trestle, Sail boating on our little Auklet, backyard BBQ’s to Alpine walks in Paradise Meadows, chilling a bit on our little island at home, swimming in the local river, taking in the Sand Sculptures and the weekend blast of our cities Bathtub Race to taking the lift to the mountain top of Mount Washington. We took them on the tiny Mill Bay ferry over to Buchart’s Garden in Brentwood Bay and walks through the capital city Victoria.

Ah, Victoria yes, walking the historic downtown with Bob and his brother Dan, pointing out the architecture, when what I thought was a gush of water from an overhead flower box was in fact the fecal bombing of a passing seagull. Oh yes, landing square on top of my head. Feel the seeping into the hair if you will. Prompted an immediate return to our motel, driving with all windows down because the high piercing reek of rotten fish permeated the car, and a jump into the shower.

I handled it well. Laughed, didn’t lose my cool. I took it as an omen of good fortune. Ya.

Then getting back into the car to head back downtown to pick up where we left off our car blew some sort of hose which we then had to immediatly take to the dealer mechanic ten minutes to closing time, but they said they’d wait.  Yep guy says, there is no way you could drive this car back up island. Said he should have it ready by Monday, and this was Friday, and they didn’t have a courtesy car available either.

I grumbled my waxing disappointment for BMW’s. Six year old car, we’ve had for two, and it’s been in the shop already several times. Dealer bought too. Then no courtesy car, or even a voucher for a rental. Fail.

But I digress, long story short next morning they came through with the courtesy car and we were able to continue on with our day touring around the city’s surrounding area in the Mini Cooper, or the clown car, said my six-foot two husband. All ended on a high happy note, with this minor hiccup.

Then there was the exhilarating pins and needles drive following the dictates of our Google Maps when searching for the quickest route back from the Saanich Peninsula to Mill Bay (rather than taking the tiny ferry back across) which took us the back roads way into Goldstream Provincial Park . You had to be there.

So we did it. We were good hosts and ambassadors and had a ton of fun being tourists ourselves in our own backyard. Leaving Bob and I promising we need to continue exploring this big island for ourselves instead of waiting for company to come.

Signage at the top of Mt. Washington, a Whiskey Jack on top of top of the world. These birds are ridiculously fearlessly social. Put a hand out and they will land on it. Have food in your hand and they are your new best friend.


The view dropping over the edge on the way down from Mt. Washington.


The reaction of a flat lander when the earth drops from under you on the way down from the top of Mt. Washington. It’s OK she was fine the rest of the way.


Day at the Kinsol Trestle in Shawnigan.


Choosing a route at Paradise Meadows in the Sub-Alpine.


Open Meadows of the sub- alpine.


The Buchart’s Gardens, well a small section of it. It’s huge, took 31/2 hours.


Swimming in our local river, a first ever river swim for our guests. It was splendid.


A must-stop at Ellis River en route to Tofino and Long Beach.


Long Beach at sunset. A young woman heading for the surf. One day by gum I’m gonna do that.


Dan at Long Beach, contemplating leaving Ontario winters and moving West perhaps.


One of several Sand Sculptures.


Our famous, and this year most treacherous in sixty years due to extreme conditions, Bathtub Race!


Warrants two spots in my blog. Bone crushing for both tubber and their escort boat. 33 tubs entered and only 4 finished. Last one taking 5 hours to come in. Thanks to a local -unknown to me- photographer for these shots I pulled from our little island community fb page.


Another day closed, but we head into town for some music from my sons new band playing at a local pocket cocktail bar called The Nanaimo Bar ~